Where are you in this moment?

This week I’ve been surprised at how many times I caught myself not really being in the moment, which actually created a self- fulfilling prophecy of sorts. I wanted so desperately for a situation to be a certain way that I was unable to actually be there. I was...
Steady On

Steady On

I was hoping to have the perfect news to share, that my plan was coming together just exactly the way I wanted. Sometimes, you just can’t see the whole picture, only the parts in front of you and you have to hold on tightly to your dreams, all the while letting...

Align with the Truth

It’s not about ignoring your fears, it’s about realizing they’re not valid. It’s about realizing that you are so much more than you believe. Your fears are based on thoughts and beliefs that you have internalized. These limiting thoughts are no...

Holding Space

I have been thinking of the concept known as “holding space” for a while now. It is not a common concept. The space that I refer to is not physical. To me, it is more abstract, describing a psychological space. A place that does not exist physically but that is...

On Stepping Up

A little over six weeks ago, I made a radical decision. I woke up to an urgent phone message from one of my nonprofit consulting clients, saying that her new director had quit with no warning and no reason given. Her board of directors wanted me to take the position....

Behind every successful woman…

One day I was reading my mail and noticed a comment from a member. She said that it was in my group that she felt safe around other women… for the first time… in a long time. This is when I realized just how important fellowship is to human beings,...